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Childhood cancer is the #1 disease killer of children in the U.S. and only 4% of U.S. federal funding is dedicated to childhood cancer research. Even in these challenging times, TOKC remains committed to raising awareness and funds for pediatric cancer and providing HOPE and JOY to kids with cancer. HOPE through fundraising for research, which is of utmost importance because without it there will be no end to this dreadful disease and JOY through visiting local hospitals and bedsides with events and activities designed to help provide immediate relief, respite and joy to cancer patients and their families. And we are able to do that with YOUR support.

The Triumph Over Kid Cancer Foundation was established in 2010 by 17-year-old James Ragan and his sister, Mecklin. James was diagnosed at the age of 13 with Osteosarcoma, a form of pediatric bone cancer. Recognizing that his condition was likely incurable, James was determined to make a difference in the health and survival of other children with cancer.

Headshot of James A Ragan “I want you to remember my face. Because my face is the face of every kid that dies from a pediatric cancer that isn’t profitable to cure. My face is the face of every kid that dies because the drugs don’t have a rigorous business plan demonstrating demand and self sustainability.

And every day you ignore a cancer like pediatric cancer, you cost this country the energy and leadership of thousands of kids just like me with infinite potential to secure the future of our country.”

-James A. Ragan, 2012

PLEASE remember TOKC by making a one-time or recurring contribution on May 5 for #GivingTuesdayNow, a global day of giving created to increase generosity and support for nonprofits around the world. Mark your calendars, follow us on social media and spread the word! We look forward to coming together on May 5 and sharing all the ways that you can help the 46 children still being diagnosed with cancer EACH day!

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In Memory of Eva Margaret Damiens

TOKC extends its deepest thanks to the Damiens and Hennessey families. Although dealing with the loss of Eva Margaret Damiens, otherwise affectionately known as “Mema”, a mother, sister, grandmother, they still exemplify their Mema’s spirit of joy, service and giving, and take time to remember kids with cancer during their grief. Your donations will bring hope to kids with cancer through funding vital research. All research donations are matched dollar for dollar. Here, Eva Margaret “Mema” Damien’s legacy and life will always be remembered.



 

OBITUARY: Eva Margaret Damiens passed away at home in Metairie on Friday, January 17, 2020 at the age of 84. Her joyful spirit lives on in our hearts and in heaven. Eva was born in Jennings, Louisiana and was a lifelong resident of New Orleans. She was a graduate of St. Joseph Academy, Soulé Business College, and a member of several organizations including the World Trade Club Women’s Auxiliary and the Altar Society of St. Maria Goretti. She is preceded in death by her husband, Marcel Joseph Damiens; parents, Herve Antoine Tabary and Cecile deLeaumont Tabary; stepmother, Vera deLeaumont Tabary; sister, Cecile Tabary Kopanica. Eva is survived by her daughters, Marcelle “Sammy” d’Hemecourt (Tommy), Mignon Franco (Michael) and Michelle Hennessey (John); her sons, Tab Damiens (Lourdes) and Mark Damiens (Laurie); grandchildren, Thomas d’Hemecourt (Chenét), Suzette d’Hemecourt Olson (Peter), David d’Hemecourt, Hailey-Madison Damiens, Hannah Damiens, Anastasia Damiens, Michael Franco Jr (Erin), Christopher Franco (Jenay), Jeffrey Franco (Jacqueline), Michelle Franco, Nicholas Franco (Rebecca), Austin Damiens, Megan Damiens, Taylor Hennessey (Amy) and Zachary Hennessey; and her 14 great-grandchildren. Eva is also survived by her sister, Yvette Tabary Villarrubia, numerous nieces, nephews and other family. Eva was affectionately referred to as “Mema” by her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Spending time with her family was her greatest joy in life. She was a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother and a friend to all. Her sweet personality and grace were a blessing to all who knew her. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass to be held at Our Lady of the Rosary Catholic Church, 3368 Esplanade Ave, New Orleans, LA 70119 on Wednesday, January 22, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. Visitation at church will begin at 12:00 noon until Mass. Interment will follow the Mass at All Saints Mausoleum. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to be made in Eva’s memory to “Triumph Over Kid Cancer Foundation” at www.triumphoverkidcancer.org. The family invites you to share your condolences online at lakelawnmetairie.com.

Texas Legends Junior Tour’s

5th Annual James A. Ragan Memorial

Tan, Winans and Petruzzelli Win at James A. Ragan Memorial

 

CORPUS CHRISTI – Andrew Tan of Austin shoots 3-under 68 in the final round to win the Boys 15-18 Division of the James A. Ragan Memorial at Corpus Christi Country Club. Richardson’s Meagan Winans wins the Girls 12-18 Division, while Dallas’ Andrew Petruzzelli wins the Boys 14 & Under Division.

Leaderboard:

 

Boys 15-18 Division

1.  Andrew Tan                   136

T2. Cole Sherwood            141

T2. Jackson Drake            141

T4. Shaheen Momin        142

T4. Alejandro Gonzalez   142

 

Girls 12-18 Division

1. Meagan Winans           140

2. Gabbi Bentancourt      142

3. Caroline Kent                147

4. Denise Pan                     148

5. Sky Sudberry                 150

 

Boys 14 & Under Division

1. Andrew Petruzzelli     142

2. Grant Yerger                 145

T3. Jonathan Kim              147

T3. Kevin Mu                      147

5. Daniel Macias               149

 

Leaders: Tan posted consecutive rounds of 3-under 68 to get to 6-under overall and five strokes ahead of the field in the Boys 15-18 Division. The win was Tan’s first with the Legends Junior Tour as he racked up 10 birdies and an eagle in 36 holes. The eagle came on the par-5 fifth. Winans posted the low round of the day with a 4-under 67 and won the Girls 12-18 Division by two strokes. She joins her sister, Libby, as a past champion of this event after going bogey free and making four birdies in the final round. Petruzzelli picks up his second win of the second with a score of even-par 142 in the Boys 14 & Under Division.

 

Top Finishers: Austin’s Cole Sherwood and Lubbock’s Jackson Drake finished tied for second in the Boys 15-18 Division at 1-under 141. Shaheen Momin of Sugar Land and Alejandro Gonzalez of Mexico tied for fourth in the division at even-par 142, while Jacob King of Boerne and Peyton Johnson of Shreveport tied for sixth. Frisco’s Gabbi Bentancourt finished second in the Girls 12-18 Division behind Winans, while Caroline Kent, who won the LJT Fall Challenge last month, finished third. Houston’s Denise Pan finished fourth and Sky Sudberry of The Woodlands finished fifth in the Girls 12-18 Division. Driftwood’s Grant Yerger finished runner-up in the Boys 14 & Under Division, while Round Rock’s Jonathan Kim and Austin’s Kevin Mu tied for third.

 

Course: The course features an open layout that works its way through a residential area and maneuver its way across hills and bodies of water. Tall palm trees surround the property and the wind plays a huge factor into each shot for the player. The course is being played as a par-71 for the event and around 6,500 yards in the Boys 15-18 Division, 6,100 yards in the Boys 14 & Under Division and almost 5,800 yards in the Girls 12-18 Division.

 

Weather: The weather was perfect again on Monday with temperatures creeping up to 90 degrees and winds ranging from 10-15 miles per hour.

 

About James: James Ragan started playing on the LJT in 2008 and recorded three top-25 finishes. The Corpus Christi native won the 2010 Jimmy Demaret Junior Classic and earned a spot in the Jackie Burke Cup Matches. He would go on to win the LJT’s first Sportsmanship Award and the next year the award was named after him. Ragan was diagnosed with Osteosarcoma in 2006, which is a rare type of pediatric cancer. He founds “Triumph Over Kid Cancer” which is an organization that has raised more than $3 million dollars for pediatric cancer research. James passed away in 2014 but TOKC has kept going with the help of the Ragan family.

 

About TOKC: Founded by James Ragan in 2007, Triumph Over Kid Cancer is dedicated to improving the lives of children with cancer by raising their spirits, raising the public’s awareness and funding research to improve the treatment and survivability of pediatric cancers.

An inside view of cancer treatment, survival and death…

Why Winning This Cancer Lottery Sucks!

Editor’s Note: Nia Meadows currently attends Harvard and was an assistant producer on the film “Until 20.” Her mother, Geraldine Moriba, is an executive producer of program development and vice president of diversity and inclusion for CNN Worldwide. She is also a filmmaker and co-director of this documentary. Follow her on Twitter @GeraldineMoriba. “Until 20” premieres at the Austin Film Festival in Texas on Friday, October 30. The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of the author.

Story highlights

  • Nia Meadows: When I was 4, my mother had a malignant sarcoma tumor
  • My mom got lucky and her cancer went away, but others, like young James Ragan, are not
  • “Until 20” is a documentary that looks at how James’ determination inspires us to live more fully

(CNN)The day before my fourth birthday, my mom moved away from our family. We celebrated her last day in New York at a pottery class painting piggy banks with my friends. I was too young to understand that she was leaving us. This party was her goodbye. I also didn’t understand that it might be the last birthday I would ever share with her.

My mother had a malignant sarcoma tumor growing along the radial nerve in her right arm. She was told she had maybe six months to live. She was moving to Houston to receive treatment at MD Anderson Cancer Center.

Our visits to Houston were super fun — we did things like visiting the zoo and museums. But what I remember best is wearing gloves to “help” my mom clean the chemotherapy port in her chest. Or the time she let my older brother and I cut off all her hair. I laughed, thinking her bald head looked like my uncle’s. Didn’t every kid do this? It all seemed perfectly normal to me.

I didn’t know her hair was falling out because of chemotherapy. Sometimes when she went to get treatment, we waited in the kids’ playroom at the hospital. I thought that was fun, too. I thought all kids used words like chemotherapy and radiation.

The day before Geraldine Moriba moved to Houston for cancer treatment, she took her kids wig shopping to get them used to the idea that she would lose her hair. Warner Meadows (age 7), Geraldine Moriba and Nia Meadows (age 3) are all wearing wigs.

My mom says that her oncologist told her that she hit the lottery when she was diagnosed with cancer and that she might hit it again if she was cured. My mom was lucky. She hit the jackpot twice. After living away for eight months, she came home. I truly didn’t understand how close I came to losing my mom.

Her recurring checkups over the years that followed seemed routine. It was only when she started making a documentary called “Until 20” about a teenager with a rare cancer that everything became clear.

That person was James Ragan. At 13, he was diagnosed with an osteosarcoma tumor in a bone in his right leg. James and my mom both had aggressive tumors that fall under the classification of sarcoma or connective tissue cancers. They both underwent many of the same treatments at the same hospital. They even had some of the same doctors.

Yet at the end of the day, they had different results. Unfortunately, James’s tumor metastasized from his leg to his lungs. Their doctors still can’t explain why my mom’s tumor responded to treatment and his didn’t. There are no answers.

Watching my mother make this film has been an awakening experience for me.

There is too little research on rare cancers and even less research on childhood cancer. Cancer is the second leading cause of death in children ages 1-14, exceeded only by accidents. Today, there are targeted cancer therapies that successfully cure certain cancers. However, kids with cancer are not the first patients to get these drugs; they are the last.

James never let his disease quench his determination to excel at everything he wanted to achieve — golf, education, relationships and his advocacy work. He supported Sunshine Kids, where he served on the board, and then became a special ambassador with The University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center, helping to lobby Congress for funding for pediatric cancer research. Still wanting to do more, he launched the Triumph Over Kid Cancer Foundation. All of this while he was still a teenager.

As my mom made this film, I could see the impact it had on her life. It gave her purpose. What I didn’t realize was that it would change my life, too. James’ unrelenting determination inspires me to take the most out of every day, because tomorrow is never certain. Even when his days were limited, he never lost his drive and determination to be the best version of himself.

How would you live if you knew you only had a year to live? It only takes one person to inspire you to be a better person. Maybe it’ll be James Ragan for you. For me, it’s my mom.

Meadows, Nia. “Why Winning This Cancer Lottery Sucks (Opinion).” CNN, Cable News Network, 2 Nov. 2015, https://www.cnn.com/2015/10/30/opinions/meadows-cancer-lottery/index.html.

7 Reasons You Cannot Miss TOKC’s Toga Party and Golf Tournament Weekend May 10-11

Reasons You Cannot Miss TOKCs Toga Party

 

What could be better than having a blast and supporting kids with cancer at the same time? On May 10th and 11th, join hundreds of your neighbors at the Triumph Over Kid Cancer golf tournament and Toga Party.

The golfing event, the 12th Annual James A. Ragan Triumph Scramble, will be held at the Corpus Christi Country Club with a shotgun start at 1:00 pm. Tickets are $250 per person.

The 13th annual Toga Party the following night from 8:00 p.m. to 1:00 a.m.at 4126 Ocean Drive features a live band, a night of dancing, scrumptious finger food from Venetian Hot Plate, silent and live auctions and seeing prominent people in your community in togas & cowboy boots! Tickets are $150 per person. Proceeds from both events fund research into pediatric cancer and support kids with cancer.

Why should you consider attending?

1.) Toga! Toga! Toga!
Old people in togas. Little kids in togas. Groups of people in matching themed togas. One year the mayor showed up in a toga. It’s hard not to have fun dancing in a toga. This year, don’t forget your cowboy boots!

2.) Carrying on James’s Legacy
The toga party got its start back when James was declared cancer-free and his parents wanted to throw him a birthday party. Uncomfortable being the center of attention, James suggested a toga party in the family’s backyard, assuming, mistakenly, that his parents would never consent. The Ragans asked each guest to donate $50 to pediatric cancer research, and they raised an astonishing $40,000 that first year.

The golf tournament kicked off the following year because James loved golf and played it until his dying days.

“Buy a ticket because not only are you supporting children in your own community who have cancer, you’re also supporting incredibly innovative research into new cures for pediatric cancer, and that money gets matched,” says Mecklin Ragan, James’s sister co-founder of Triumph Over Kid Cancer.

3.) Whataburger Breakfast Burritos and Gates Donuts
Those who remain at the toga party as Saturday night seeps into Sunday morning are rewarded with Whataburger breakfast burritos and Gates donuts. No one leaves at 11:30!

4.) Leveraging Dollars for Cancer Research
Because sponsors pick up the costs of the events, every dollar of your admission price and auction bid goes to supporting kids with cancer and investing in pediatric cancer research. What’s more, most of the money raised at the two events is matched. For every dollar you spend, more than a dollar goes to the cause.

5.) Awesome Swag!
The swag bag at the golf tournament is nearly worth the price of admission itself. It contains a golf shirt (your choice of men’s or women’s), customized golf balls with the TOKC and Whataburger logos, a golf towel, pullover, hat and visor, divot repair kit and other sundries like sunscreen, pens and lip balm. The gym bag it comes in gets used year-round. “We’re told they’re great bags,” says Mecklin.

There’s food and adult beverages on the course as well. Oh, and golf with your friends!

6.) People Come From Across the Country for This Weekend
James’s friends return to Corpus Christi from as far as California to participate in the weekend’s activities, but they’re not the only ones. A man from Florida who had never met the Ragan family read about the event and tries to make it every year.

7.) The Funds Raised are So Badly Needed
Only four percent of government funding for cancer research is aimed at pediatric cancers, which are different than adult cancers. The result is that many of the therapies used on children today haven’t advanced since the 1970s. With 175,000 children diagnosed every year, efforts like TOKC’s to raise funding for kid cancer research are critical. It’s why your support is so very appreciated.

“It’s humbling to see the reach James and his story can have,” says Mecklin. “It gives me hope that the work he started is doing some good.”

You can help Triumph Over Kid Cancer win the war against childhood cancers and save the lives of children today and tomorrow. Visit TriumphOverKidCancer.org for more information, to sign up for the events or to make a donation.

The 5 Contributions of DoThatOneThing! to Pediatric Cancer Research

The 5 Contributions of DoThatOneThing!

Pediatric cancer patients and their families face a procession of difficult challenges, even beyond the disease itself. Families are often split, with one parent at home and the other traveling to treatment with the affected child. The treatments are often painful, frightening and ultimately unsuccessful. The financial toll can be crushing, and siblings can feel lost as attention is focused on the child with cancer. Even aside from the constant specter of death, it is a life you wouldn’t wish on anyone else.

What can we do to help these families, or to help anyone less fortunate than we are? We can pick something, whatever we choose to do, and Do That One Thing. That’s what James Ragan told us before he died of cancer, during his salutatory address at his high school graduation – “I can promise you, you will be stronger, more energetic, more positive and happier throughout your life if you do that one thing.”

Today, James’s words have been transformed into action. The DoThatOneThing Councils of Triumph Over Kid Cancer Foundation (TOKC), the organization he and his sister, Mecklin, formed to improve and lengthen the lives of children with cancer and their families, work with high school and college students to spread awareness for pediatric cancer and bring joy into the lives of pediatric cancer patients and their families.

Here are 5 ways DoThatOneThing! Council is helping achieve that mission:

1.) Establishing Chapters In Our Communities

The DoThatOneThing! Council has recruited principals, teachers, and students across our communities to establish chapters in their schools to raise awareness for pediatric cancer and to bring joy to the daily lives of children with cancer. Now in high schools, middle schools, and one college with plans to expand to others, DoThatOneThing! is taking off.

2) Bringing Joy to Pediatric Cancer Families

DoThatOneThing! Councils, run by student volunteers and their faculty advisors, have organized a number of events to spread cheer to affected families. These events occur monthly at Driscoll Children’s Hospital, MD Anderson, Texas Children’s Hospital, and the Ronald McDonald House, and include decorating patients’ hospital rooms for holidays, delivering goodie baskets, creating arts and crafts, donating books and reading to children with cancer. The DoThatOneThing! Council members even organize a Thanksgiving dinner at Driscoll Children’s Hospital. Educating the Next Generation DoThatOneThing! Councils take the time to learn about childhood cancer and the struggles faced by children and their families. For example, parents of children with cancer speak to students about first hearing the words, “your child has cancer,” and how they deal with the journey ahead. Spreading Awareness of Childhood Cancer As students learn more about pediatric cancer and understand its impact on children and their families, they share what they have learned with their peers and classmates, further spreading awareness for pediatric cancer. Chapters have done this in a variety of ways, such as distributing buttons with facts about pediatric cancer on them, or designing and distributing t-shirts with creative logos. “Students taking an interest and coming up with their own ideas – that’s what is helping TOKC to grow and educate a new generation. Increased awareness can lead to early diagnoses, which are a key to increasing survival rates,” says Gloria Ragan, mother of James Ragan and one of the driving forces behind Triumph Over Kid Cancer.

3.) Developing Organizational Skills for the Ongoing Effort

Through their participation in the DoThatOneThing! Council, high school students also learn about non-profit work, how to organize and run group meetings, how to actively listen, and speak publicly. By learning these skills, today’s students are becoming better equipped to make an even bigger impact in the future on their communities and in the fight against pediatric cancer. You can help Triumph Over Kid Cancer win the war against childhood cancers and save the lives of millions of children alive today and those yet to be born.

Visit TriumphOverKidCancer.org for more information or to make a donation.

5 Realities of Childhood Cancer We Often Overlook

5 Realities of Childhood Cancer We Often Overlook

Cancer is not just a health diagnoses; it’s a life diagnosis, and not only for the child who receives it, but for the whole family. We think of children dying of cancer, and that makes sense: it’s the second leading cause of death in children after accidents. But children live with cancer first — a life of challenges, of physical and emotional pain, and of an immense family upheaval as the stricken child’s life becomes the focus of family life.

Triumph Over Kid Cancer (TOKC), an organization that raises money to investigate new therapies for childhood cancer based here in Corpus Christi, asks us all to consider some realities of childhood cancer when we think about the 10,000 children under the age of 15 who are diagnosed each year.

“We spend so much time celebrating the triumphs we sometimes forget that kids have to fight against cancer day in and day out,” says Gloria Ragan, whose son James founded TOKC and inspired its supporters before his own death in 2014.

  1. The Daily Physical Pain

Children with cancer face a gauntlet of physical pain involving injections, radiation and chemotherapy — another way of saying burning and poisoning — the pressure of tumors on nerves and the cancer itself. They have to deal with these issues on top of the usual challenges of growing up whether they are young children attempting to learn about the world or teenagers navigating the minefield of puberty and young adulthood.

  1. The Emotional Pain and Social Ostracism

Children with cancer live with the daily prospect of a flare-up, a setback, another hospitalization and even death. One in five children diagnosed with cancer will die of it. It’s a lot for anyone to cope with, much less a child of any age. As the progress of the cancer ebbs and flows, children with cancer are usually sidelined from some activities that their friends enjoy — particularly sports. They may also miss large chunks of school time that sets them apart from their peers and even when they return, they must attempt to catch up weeks or months of work. Nothing is worse for children, especially in middle and high school, than to be different in a way that everyone can see.

  1. The Unfortunate Choices

Children with cancer have to choose between things no child should have to do. Should they go to school the day they have chemotherapy? Should they complete their homework when they are vomiting and suffering headaches? Should they go out with their friends even if there won’t be a bathroom nearby? Should they attempt to date? They make the ordinary emotional trauma of adolescence seem trivial.

  1. The Financial Strain

Families that care for children with cancer incur incredible costs during the diagnostic, treatment and follow-up. Besides the health care costs themselves, which insurance almost never covers entirely, parents often must travel with children to treatment, take time off from work and even give up employment. As many as 30% of children with cancer live over 60 miles from the nearest oncologist. The financial burden exacerbates the physical and emotional issues challenging the family.

  1. The Emotional Turbulence

Everyone in the childhood cancer community knows of parents who cracked under the emotional pain of a child with cancer, of parents who struggled with alcoholism, psychological issues and divorce from the strain. It even affects siblings because parental attention can become diverted to the sick child.

You can help Triumph Over Kid Cancer win the war against childhood cancers and save the lives of millions of children alive today and those yet to be born. Visit TriumphOverKidCancer.org for more information or to make a donation.